My desire is to be an amazing communicator and challenging people to do the right thing.

In 2009, we saw some pretty great examples of good and bad communications. I will never forget the Miss America winner on Larry King. Although she was clearly shafted for standing up for what she believed in, her performance on Larry King’s show was very awkward and strange. I will not forget that. There are a lot of other great memories from 2009. Check out the Ten Best (and Worst) Communicators of 2009 on the Decker blog here.

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As a long time member of the international community in Japan, we have the pleasure of meeting many people from many countries. I have always enjoyed Australians and have many friends that hail from the country.

A few years back, an Australian couple I knew introduced a young lady who had just returned from University in Australia (Wollongong). She worked as my secretary for three years, working hard and smart. I have spent all of my professional life in Japan and have a bit of a Japanese business ethic. On top of that, I have a great Dad, who is a very smart and hard worker. He has always been a great example to me.

I asked my secretary at lunch about the difference between Japanese and Australians. Her response shocked me. She flat out said, “In general, Aussies are lazy.” I had never heard anything like that, so I checked with her to make sure of what she had just said. (I knew that Americans can be seen as pretty ignorant, but lazy is not a word I had heard lobbed at a whole nation before). She confirmed.

I really like Australia and the land. One of my favorite bands is from Australia. They’re a fun loving people but evidently there is a stereotype to break here. Of course, we hear about the crooked cops in the news, the high crime rates (3 cars were stolen at a conference I attended in Melbourne in 1994), and other drawbacks. Every country has got them.

I called a 58 -year old Aussie buddy in Tokyo and asked him about this stereotype. He said, laziness is indeed a problem and holding the country back as a whole. I was disappointed to hear him confirm in his opinion that the majority of the time, this generalization is true. I thought that was a horrible stereotype but how what can you can you when someone from that country tells you a similar thing.

This experience got me thinking about how important it is to stay out of stereotypes. We’ve all got to be careful about the images we present What other stereo-types are out there?

Americans- Loud and pushy

Canadians- Oversensitive about being called American

French- Arrogant

Singaporean- Self-centered

Korean- Emotional

Chinese- Money Hungry

Swedish- Technocratic, gullible

German- Over-Detailed

Japanese- Perfectionists

Finnish- Stoic, silent

British- Dull

Brazilian- Playful, lazy

Arabs Violent

South Asian (Indians) Cheap

All of these words have come directly from people who have lived in the country. There are so many others that we missed. Of course, these stereotypes are just on the national level. There is whole set of regional stereotypes. In my travels, I found New Yorkers generally to be pushy and don’t give much information while Washingtonians are friendly, but probably talk too much.

There are a whole boatload of stereo types out there. We all have to work on demonstrating that we are honorable people. Let’s break the stereotypical molds and show the world that each and every on of us is important and can make a difference regardless of our nationality.

How do you break a stereotype?

1) Though consistency

2) Working through the members of the group to the whole

3) Educating our children with a good work ethic and teaching a sense of responsibility (ownership) of our actions.

4) Teach honor and dedication to completing the task.